Its Tuesday night and Emma Duong is asleep. Dancing Queen is being played in the bar and I must be right below the bar - its crystal clear.
Emma Duong is going to spend the rest of the trip going to everyone but me and I am trying to accept it and be thankful for the things that are going well.. If it is just the two of us she is in my arms and happy. Loves to sing while we are walking around. Since we cannot speak I decided to sing with her and having no imagination started singing Happy Birthday. Within a day she was singing the whole tune - don't know what words she is using but it cracked me up when I recognized what she was singing.
She had a blast today. Our taxi driver took us to his home to pick up his kids (a bit nervous here) and then to an amusement park (Vietnamese style and very different). After she warmed up to the kids she loved it and just chatted away. She hasn't been around people speaking Vietnamese in almost a week and this must have felt good to her.. She was holding hands with the taxi driver and all of his kids - she stayed clear of me...
Tonight our whole group went out to eat with the agency's staff in HCMC.. Great food. Probably the best since I have been here (well, Pizza Hut is good too). Ditto, she stayed clear of me.
I have made one huge mistake...I have not fed her enough. From day one she has said no to white rice, fried rice, noodles. She has pretty much existed on fruit, chips and bread. She is so thin I thought she just did not eat. Well today at the amusement park, with the Vietnamese family, we at family style rice and seafood and chicken. She put the food away. When we got home and after a short swim (jump in with her clinging on, walk around a couple times in the shallow end and she wants out) we came up to the room and she started crying. She had just eaten a huge lunch so I thought she could not be hungry. Made her stay in the room for an hour, then we ran some errands and coming into the hotel she started tearing up again. I went to the front desk and asked them what she wanted - she was hungry!!!!! Was given direction to a vietnamese style restaurant and she ate. I wonder if any other crying could have been avoided if I had just fed her???? I know the vietnamese word for hungry now and I am trying to teach her hungry.
Our paperwork seems to be just fine and we will be picking up our visas Friday afternoon. I know the flight is going to be long and interesting with Emma Duong but I am so ready to come home...